She has no one to talk to about her sitch, except for me and that's completely non-productive. My only worry is if the LRT is appropriate for my sitch; She's a WAS, but she's also felt very neglected by me. I just wonder if my working out and other 180s are a self-fulfilling prophecy for her.
I'm not going to sit and ask her how she is all the time, what's wrong, and all the other stuff I used to do. When I come home, I ask her how her day was, but her replies are a lot shorter now since she seems more stressed. She also knows that I don't want to hear any talk about the two guys that she gives so much attention to.
I'm going to do some more leading, by talking to her tonight about what her plans for housing are now that she's pretty much shot down the 1BD. And maybe talk about splitting up our pictures/photos of the family that we have throughout the house.