The saga continues

[OfficerInNeed]

Things between W and I have been steady, We had a few rocky days since my last post. These few days consisted of arguments that stemmed from me expecting to much too soon. In the end we both agreed to stop the argument and move forward.

Retrouvaille should be a tremendous help for us (1 month to go).

There have been moments where W and I openly talk about the past and we'd validate each others feelings.

One thing my W has said constantly to me is "I have to trust you again, you hurt me and it will take time, I use to always feel pressured to do things and now I want to do this on my own terms."

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As gucci mentioned, it is true for months I was stubborn and took the "be patient and wait it out" route. Then I slowly convinced myself that indeed it was "too little too late" and even thought I was a major contributor to our falling apart I did not want to life like that any longer and so I took the plunge and followed the advice of many. I agreed with W for once and it drastically turned our sitch around.