she cried about something you said...tears of guilt? Did she come running back? How much pain have you been through? How much pain are you in?
DAMN STRAIGHT!!
Originally Posted By: Steady
Now you draw a very CLEAR boundary that is there for YOUR health and the health of your D. That HEALTHY boundary puts your W on the outside. It's not you withdrawing, it's you putting her on the outside of your circle. You aren't curled up in a ball made of your own little world.
Your world has expanded BECAUSE you set the boundary. You're not hidden, you're standing tall for EVERYONE to see. She can see but she's not allowed to be in your world because she's being banished until she stops her nonsense.
BIG BIG DIFFERENCE.
Where, oh where, can I find "Boundaries for Dummies"?
