You got the text and went into a frienly mode and banter. That's what I would call a 'bigger' thing.
I tell my W 'have a great night' in a phone conversation. That's a 'smaller' thing.
Both of them are the same, come from the same intention...one is big and obvious, the other one is subtle and more devious. But when I said it to her, I knew exactly why I was saying it to her.
It's in the same vein as to why you did what you did in that texting with your W. Same exact thing, just different size. Make sense?
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