Did you ever tell her you didn't want to be friends with her?
No but I should be open for it next time the opportunity appears.
Originally Posted By: Steady
I don't see how you would HAVE to move.
No, I wouldn't. That is what was so odd. She must know she can'r relocate unless she gives up custody or I agree to follow. And why would I do ANYTHING for her benefit- I'd love to move there but not at HER suggestion. But that is what struck me as oddly personal and "good times". But I missed the point as I'll 'fess up to below.
Originally Posted By: Steady
CD, this woman is having an affair. She is completely disrespecting you. Then she has the gumption to text you like you guys are best friends........ CD, this woman is having an affair. She is completely disrespecting you. Then she has the gumption to text you like you guys are best friends...........When you act as a 'friend' toward her you are sending her the message you are perfectly fine to be friends with her regardless of the fact she is having an affair. Is that true? Is that the message you want to be sending her?Is your goal to be her friend? Do you want to be friends with her while she's with OM?
Again, guilty of mind-reading from the last two days and got "soft". DUMB!!!
I'd like to ask the opinion of "shutting her down" with this inane chat. I'm thinking more "AllenA" and everytime I get something NOT about D, I HAMMER away with responses like: "Oh? Is the Affair over? "Have you stopped sleeping with another man? "Have you decided to NOT abandon your responsibilities to the family we started?"
BANG! BANG! BANG!
And, judging by the amount of Yahoo notifications, I likely have more lumber to recognize and accept like a man.
