Now CD I'm going to ask you to be brutally honest with yourself.

What exactly when through your head when you got that first text? I mean detailed.

Something like:

WTF? Why is she sending me this text? This is really weird. Maybe she's looking back? It kinda looks like it. Why did she say 'we'? Why is she even asking me if I would want to move there? If she moves there then the OM will be out of the picture? Did they fizzle already? Is she having second thoughts. You know, screw her. She's walking all over me and she sends me a text like this... what's up with that?

I'm not writing back.

Well, what if it is a crack? What if I don't respond? If I don't that would make me look like I don't care at all. I mean, detaching is loving also. So if I ignore her, she may think I don't even care anymore and that might drive her further away.

But I'm supposed to be cutting her off - that's what they say makes the WAS choose.

But this is different. I have to strike while the iron is hot. This may be the opportunity I've been waiting for. Ok, let me put some banter in there. I'll mention the Ice Cream place...she loved that place and it will remind her of a time when we were in love. Yeah....

Shoot, what will the DB people think? I'm worried about how my W will take it if I do or don't text back....

<click> <---- that's the sound of CD's send button.


Now let me show you a different way.

Ok, this text is weird. Why would she even send that to me? What's this we stuff? We? There is no we! There's me, then there's her and her BS.

I don't allow people to treat me the way she's treating me. I wouldn't keep a friend around if they treated me this way. I drew a boundary and I'm sticking to it. She's gonna have to work her a$$ off to get me back...if she even still has a chance at that.

<click> <--- That's the sound of CD's phone closing after he deleted the message...

Although, I do like Puppy's response much better. smile


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Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
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