OK, good point about the bad news and financial info exchange.
My only issue with sharing my laptop is all the articles and so forth I have on divorce busting and saving my marriage. Certainly nothing to hide, but it's not something he should be privvy to either right now.
However, there is the option of just signing on as a guest.
As for D, he claims he already talked to her about it and she's OK with him not going. Well, that's because she's not going to sit there and say, "NO! You need to be there," when he's just told her he's not planning on it. She's not that type. She shouldn't have to ask her father to come along. She's the, "It's OK.." even when it isn't type. (Yeah - she needs to get over that!)
Well, the other possibility is that she also feels he's being a jack-donkey of late and just figures, "Fine! Don't come!" LOL
I don't know. I just feel bad for her! It's actually easier for me if he doesn't come - don't have to put up with his moods. BUT... for her, that's just really sad. I suppose I can try to talk to him again about it. I don't know.