I gained 4 lbs over the weekend after having lost over 20 lbs since the bomb - I need to really start thinking about my diet again. Kinda been slacking off lately.
1. had some nice IM yesterday morning but we both were busy at work so not much IM yesterday. 2. I called her last night and we had a nice chit chat call for aobut 15 minutes 3. have great memories of last weekend
Just Journaling - {so I would not forget this again}
I was just watching TV and noticed something that reminded me of a positive from last weekend that I forgot. Seems that when we get together lately and get a drink, she brings our glasses together in a toast. Well, this weekend while we had a margaretta, and after our toast she did the intertwining of our arms while drinking our drinks, like we did when we drank our champagne at our wedding reception. She said she wanted to see if we could still do it.
Like I said before, this last weekend had lots of positives and they happened so close together that I could not remember them all. Watching another couple do the same toast on a TV show brought that memory back and I wanted to get it down.
She is going to come over to my place on Thursday and we will go out to dinner again. Will be bringing Buster, (puppy). She is going out of town over weekend with GF and I am “Puppy-sitting again”
Seems like C has it in her mind to reconnect with you in everyway and I also mean to remarry! Loved the toasting story, I think she is showing you she is making her way back!
Well, not much today since yesterday she was in a Seminar most of the day. I did get an IM from her late in the afternoon and it was nice chitchat. It did not last long as she had to catch up on alot of work due to being away all morning. Also no phone call last night but it seems that after most good times together she needs to have some space to "digest" her feelings.
I did make a mean pot of Chili last night, and made enough for her to have some too. I am looking forward to our dinner date Thursday. Also I have enough positives from last weekend to carry my PMA through till then. Until then I will continue to give her space to "digest" our sitch and let her contact me first.
Good morning! Thanks for dropping by! You're right I AM paying my A to work for me, so he should be doing what I want. I won't back down, I know what I want! Your advice helped to boost me up.
Yum, Yum, chili! I think my project will be to write down some menus and start making them up for the week instead of doing that last minute "what's for dinner". LOL
You are such a good guy, and so thoughtful! If your W doesn't come back to you, there is something wrong with her! But, I think she is seeing what a rgreat guy you are, so she'll get there! I like reading your thread, because it gives me hope! And even though some don't post on our threads, they do read them. Mine jumped from 855 last night up quit a bit by this morning. So someone is viewing! I think we need to keep posting our positives because people need to get a PMA boost from us!
morning coffee and reflections on yesterday's positives.
1. I did get an IM from her when I got back in the office yesterday afternoon. It was nice and chit chat but she did seem down some - I tried to put in some humor and she did send back a smiley icon.
2. had a nice dinner last night with an old friend of mine that I use to work with. He is having some problems with his w and I gave him some DBing principals.
3. C is planning on comming over for dinner tonight - either we eat left over chili or we go out. She likes chili so it is still a toss up.
4. I have choisen to make this a great day. (thanks pam)
