YOU are wrestling with attachment. I know you said you are only concerned about his health... but its HIS health you are focussing on.. its not a bad thing.. you just have to be aware of it...
i guess i'm not as 'detached' as i thought i was. i am going to try and be more aware of things like that.
and that link you sent me above. omg. i'm speechless.
i look at all the other guys around me and then i look at him. and if he had just grown up, and became a real man .. he would be perfect.
when he dropped the d-bomb, he said that he felt he was dragging me through his life. i'm like .. how? you have a squash club to go to because of me. my friends invited me so you tagged along. you have people to play with because of me. most of my friends wouldn't want to be his friend if he wasn't married to me - they've told me that.
i was like his mother - organizing summer activities for him to keep him busy. he didn't get us involved in anything. it was always my job to do that. how was he dragging me through his life? he didn't even have an exciting life. i don't get it.
we've never attended mc. he refused to go .. didn't think it'd solve anything. "we just can't live together. imo, marriage shouldn't be this hard."
uh .. wake up. marriage is hard work.
i hate re-living the past. it's not good for me. but i'm still learning.
