Well look at Leigh Anne Rhimes and her situation. No one's throwing darts at the two of them for cheating on their spouses... unfortunately! Well, maybe some of us but most are buying into the PR: "They married too young...they just found their soulmates at the wrong time...." WHATEVER!
At least the public took Jesse James to task but dang, it was Sandra Bullock - America's Sweetheart II - so a bigger outcry.