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I miss Gorge Carlin. He actually came to Topeka once and had the funniest observations! Everyone needs a good laugh now and then especially on these boards. smile

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And that is why you are my virtual boyfriend!! lol wink

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Second bad day at work in a row. I guess I just need to keep my mouth shut and not explain anything. Boss knows everything apparently so why in the world does he ask me to do anything???


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Sorry about that. frown Is it time to update your resume maybe and start looking around? Doesn't mean you have to get another job; I think sometimes it's just fun realizing there are lots of possibilities. And Date Night sounds like a great idea. I've got the kids this weekend--how about next weekend???

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Kat:

Having been through years (2003-2006) of not having a full-time work gig, keeping your resume up-to-date is always a very good idea. Although my current job is a good one, the pay is not where I would like it to be so I keep all of my options open...


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Karen next weekend is fine. Let me know when you get it so I can go rent it.

I get the updated resume thing but think if possible it is wise to stay put another year because of the bankruptcy. I know everyone has bad days but boss man doesn't seem to realize that he caused the problem to begin with! If I try to explain my thinking on something he sees it as arguing. He doesn't want to know why I did it...just don't go there. I always have taught the kids to show there work, explain how they got there so if there is an issue with the thought process, that can be pointed out.

Just frustrating!! He doesn't want to know why I did something. There is no...You had the clients best interest at heart but I think it would be better if...xyz. It is just you aren't listening.

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So the Cardinal Grand Cross is letting itself be felt. Things were tentative with my boss on Friday. The whole weekend just flew by as usual. Friday s14 talked about a lot of things. He brought up how d11 takes her diary to her dad's. She read some of what she had written to him. She was saying how her dad is forcing his GF on them and portraying her as their new mother. She said they already have a Mom and don't want or need a new one. He also pushes them to constantly be with her d7. Look like you are having fun.

My heart just aches for them. I am trying to take the high road and support them but they didn't tell me these things. They told their big brother. I know it wasn't supposed to be this way but this is reality now.

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I hear you Kat! Could you get brother to suggest the kids talk to you? They probably feel that they are being disloyal to Dad if they talk to you, so if brother says it's OK maybe that would make a difference...or maybe not. Who knows.


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