WAW says she wants to come back

[Chuck66]

I agree with you that the OM has to go FIRST. I just don't see my W saying, "I want to be with YOU" anytime soon.

Half the time I can't see the forest through the trees. That's why I come to this site for clarification.

Heck, most of us with 20+ years of marriage know little about dating, courting, sparking, or whatever else you want to call it since it has been so long. We are old fogies.

When I married my 18 year old W...what did I know about communication and giving my undivided attention?

GKM,
I'd let her stew about your decision for a while. She has let you stew with the sitch for a very long time. Think it through and we will support you!