once school and everything gets going that she might see how much help i actually was.
So you want her to want you around because you are 'help'?
I've been reading your sitch but have not commented because I have no experience with affairs in my sitch, but lack of trust & rebuilding of trust after it has been destroyed, that I get.
showing her how much 'help' you actually were.. is not going to rebuild trust. To be honest, in my sitch, not having my H in the house was a relief, and much less work than having him there.
Consistent acknowledging of your mistakes, reassurances your are making changes and undestand what you need to do, transparency,and empathy for her hurt & the pain of your betrayal of her.. will go much further than your sisters idea.
Kudos to you for being here, being honest and seeking help. Lots of good people here to offer support and advice.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
