Glad you and the girls had a nice weekend! The more you write about your H, the more I think he is in MLC...have you read any of the resources on MLC? It might help you "understand" as best as anyone can understand MLC...it also might help with detachment! Once you get there, you will be able to interract better with your H.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing