Is it a bad idea to ask him to postpone for about 6 months so I can save up for an attorney? I give birth in 3 months and can look for work once she arrives. I really don't want to use the only money I have saved on an attorney.

His excuse is I won't need a separate attorney if we just agree to everything ahead of time.


M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug