At the slow rate I'm posting it may be years before I start a new one but here's the recent weirdness....
I've bought the house back from X but her and OMH are still living in it until the one they are building (are they the only couple building a home in the US building right now?) is finished. We have a gentleman's agreement on occupancy as there is no occupancy contract. She has been paying the mortage although it and the house are now in my name. But that's not the weird part (not to me, anyway)...
The moving date has been pushed back repeatedly and both their and my moves are dependent upon the completion of their house. So last month just before the note was due she says...
Her: "I'm in a bind for time today, can you just go by the bank "X", take out the money for the note and pay it?"
Me: "I'm still on the account?"
Her: "Yeah, you are."
Me: "Which account?"
Her: "All of them, I haven"t changed anything, take the money out of account #2."
Mind you there are a couple of personal accounts and the business account. Today at kidswap she told me I could go by and take out the money for this month's note. I can't help but wonder if OMH is on the accounts too (I doubt it) and how he might respond if he knew I was still on the accounts.
This segues with a comment she made just before marrying OMH which I found odd at the time:
"I trust OM about as much as I trust you."
I couldn't help thinking but didn't say:
"THEN WHY THE HELL ARE YOU MARRYING HIM !?!"
I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's a fine madness.
Last edited by sleeper; 08/12/1001:15 AM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13