Eric,
Thank you for sharing your tremendously difficult story. You have made some huge decisions that are gracious and thoughtful and reflective of a strong, caring man. I believe that the sacrifices we make now for our children will result in a stronger future for our kids. At least I hope so....

I never thought that I would be anything less than open, receptive, etc. to H's wishes. That's what I've always been ~ keep the peace. Unfortunately, over the last couple of weeks I have found that responding that way has taken a serious toll on me. I feel as if I have laid enough ground work for my WAS to know who I am, what I am, and that he knows where to find me. I don't expect it - but I pray for it - we had a good thing.

Good luck to you during this transition. I hope you continue to post because you provide wonderful guidance to rest of us!


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time