I'm no expert on MC, but if after two meetings you are not getting a good vibe about it, perhaps you should try to find another. I have not had the opportunity to go to MC with H, but all the reading here suggests, as PEI said, No MC is better than bad MC. Also, if her heart ain't in it, well . . .
What did the two of you do when you first met. What were your common interests? My friend at lunch today said the same thing about her husband. " He comes home, eats, then leaves to work out for two hours, and I'm always alone." She asked him to change his workout schedule and workout before he came home, then spend some evening time with her, but he said " Right at that time all the machines are full and I hate to wait ". Probably an accurate point, but what about time with his wife?
Just saying, and it sounds as if you are really trying, you may have to do some trade off in accomodations, but if you are both willing, then do so. If you are not both willing, then what has been accomplished?
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
