Do you think you could get him to go away for a weekend marriage retreat thing? The one I went on with H was incredible!!! It takes the place of MONTHS of counseling, even though it isn't counseling. I truly think that where you are in this relationship, it would be extremely beneficial to you.
I am so slammed right now, I don't have the time until next week, but I want to post a lot about the weekend. Your H doesn't have to WANT to go, he only has to be willing to go - even if for the wrong reasons and even if it is with the worst attitude in the world.
