She's in MLC, but I was weak. Now what?

[crushednstuck]

Thanks Lance and PEI, I'm 2 meetings into MC and was initially psyched W was engaging. I intentially selected a female MC to offer some comfort to W and hopefully learn something myself. But as the two sessions unfolded, I'm becoming more skeptical of the process.
W's lease in ending and she is entertaining the idea of coming back and I told her that I couldn't allow her to keep seeing OM because its a boundary. She didn't scream and yell. She agreed. I want to read something into this, but don't want to be scorched. She is highly suspicious of me and her friends right now. She is reading things into my outings that simply aren't there. I'd like to think she would stop the more she's around me, but don't know.
Your advice carries wisdom though. I can't seem to make her happy. I'm doing the things that make me better..working out, journaling, investigating my own issues. She says my working out during M took me away from her. She insists she can't be active, but I'm just looking for something to do together/ as family. If I rely on her guidance, we'd do nothing but read the paper, eat, drink coffee, and sample wine. I love those things, but a complete, adventurous life they don't make.
Sorry, more long posts.