I just read Eric's post and his determination to let go with love and compassion instead of anger and resentment. I myself am just now reaching that stage. I still want for my H to be the man I married, still want to remain married, but realize that may not be God's plan for the moment. I know you've followed my post, and today was a breakthrough of sorts for me. I sent into the same restaurant as my H with nary a butterfly in my stomach. Never looked at him one time. Saw him from the back get up and leave. And you know what, I didn't feel anything. Strange but true. Then reading Eric's post made me feel maybe that was a goal to reach for. No anger.
Tomorrow of course, I may be hormonal and blow up his truck. Today my mantra is peace and tranquility.
