I am just wondering what message that tells your husband about a meeting you schedule with him about something that important...
I don't know yet, but you have to be mindful of the message you send... Never mind being weak, how does this change how HE will PERCEIVE you in future exchagnes.. that's the important part
WHy not just mention it so he doen'st think you forgot your point but tell him this is not a good time and the family needs to focus on your DD right now so YOU are postponing the conversation...
and end that by thanking him for all his efforts this week..and list them in detail
I think NOT mentioning it makes him think its not important to you... but YOU know him MUCH better than I do... so you need to think about what he takes away from you not saying anything