He claims "all of this has him mad at life and now he needs to work his a$$ off to make himself feel good for once"

MLC talk?? All of what has him mad? This is all his choice! He chooses not to get on AD's, he chooses not to fix the M. All his choices.

He claims he won't be ready to date for at least 2 yrs b/c he wants to focus on him and the kids ONLY.

I know I need to detach, I'm trying.....But what does all this mean??

Wait? Or just give in and let him have his way?

M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug