To add, because of this, I think it may be best to postpone the other discussion - about his week review time being up and such. I don't see any good coming off having that discussion while he is overwhelmed about finances. We didn't have it last night. When I came home, he was headed out to run. I fell asleep, so we didn't even do our 30 minutes last night.
I'm not afraid to have the discussion, but quite frankly, I just want the next week with my family to be as drama free as possible. I want to have some normalcy while I move my only daughter to college. Does postponing that and not bringing it up if H doesn't make me weak??? I don't want to be. I just want what's best for my family.
