I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[CityGirl]

I guess what I wonder is why it would not be positive to plan your future without a man? I understand the best case scenario would be have a life partner (if that is what you desire I mean) but what if that doesn't happen despite your plan?

I wonder that myself and actually feel (felt?) way safer planning my future alone (alone = not married again).

Then again, you never know who will come along!