My sitch is already on here but usually 3 pages deep and gets little review.
W couldn't decide on if she still wanted to be married. I did not want to be in limbo and filed.
Same house/same bed/10 sentences a day to each other/She works long hours when she doesn't have to. 99% sure no PA. 50% sure no EA.
She was elf destructive in June. ER visit for OTC drugs. Alcohol every night, etc. Last 2 weeks no pills whatsoever, no alcohol, no hiding in one room at home. We actually have sit down meals with kids. Still no movement on communication between her and I.
Do I just do the DB step of "nothing" and wait to see if GAL and 180s have any effect (yes I know they are for me, but many of us do it for two reasons)?
In the meantime I am being the best father I can. Bought all school supplies, was at school for 2 hours getting them registered, and I take them everywhere (fun) 3-4x per week.
What lines do I say when she says "how about a legal separation instead of a D because it would be quicker?"
When we have not talked for 6 hours, do I even say, "hi, what sounds good for supper?"
What say you Coach?
Last edited by Chuck66; 08/11/1008:53 PM.
Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21 Bomb June 18, 2010 I filed D July 20, 2010 W filed counter suit Aug 2 Rings came off Aug 5, 2010