How much longer in Separated?

[jon2911]

Hey Kevin! Good to hear from you.

Had a good weekend, some cousins were in from Colorado and I showed them how we handle the Texas heat, which has been 106 every day for a while. We rented a boat and hit the lake. I'm still sore LOL.

W had mentioned to me how sad her GFIL was when she went out last Thursday, but she was looking forward to spending time with him at "the Ranch", their vacation home.

I talked to her after the weekend, and it sounded terrible. He's been very crabby, using the excuse that he's grieving over GMIL. Which is true, but W has to deal with it. For example, on the way there they stopped at a place he didn't like, and he groused the whole time and said "guess all I eat is sh-t this days anyway". That's a real dig at W, who cooks for him. She even picked something that he'd like from the menu, and he complained the whole time while eating the entire sandwich. LOL.

W was throwing up all weekend, said she's had a constant migraine for 3 weeks. That explains the withdrawn vibe I've been getting. She really sounds down when we talk the last few days. She really has a choice between dealing with GFIL, or FIL who just had hip replacement. Not fun.

I wish I could help her. It's sobering to think that this would be really, really hard to deal with even if we were back together. We had a good talk last night, and it turns out they're going back to the Ranch this weekend. She said sorry we can't do anything and sounded sad.

Fantastic recording session last night, I'm very happy with the results. Getting more comfortable coming up with stuff on the fly in the studio. Very tired today though. Just need to make it through work and go to bed early tonight.

So, it's been a month now since the last visit, which went fantastic. Which makes this even harder. I'm really feeling it. No plans for the weekend because I was keeping it open to go down there. My motorcycle transmission has been acting up, and I'll finally have time to get it taken care of. That, and catch up on job #2. Maybe I'll take a new Harley for a long test drive.

How about some Hard 8 Kevin?