Well I had a nother plesant supprise - Cindy called again tonight about 8:30 and we talked for about 30 minutes - she had gone Christmas shopping and then went by her parents graves to take some flowers. I had offered to take her down last weekend and she wanted to go but something came up and we did not have time. Last Thursday morning I found myself comming back from a Courthouse near there and I stopped by myself and told her I went later and that the flowers that were there were kinda bad. She said she cleaned up some and left some new flowers.
In talking with her it came up that I bought a new Christmas tree and Decorations and all and she got kinda quite and asked why I did not use our old ones - I told her that I left them so she could use them. She still seemed to be reserve and said she may not do anything but a small table top tree this year. I told her she needed to get a big tree like she usually does and all. I said I did want to use some of my special ornaments but she could use any of the other lights, garlin, and ornaments herself.
Well for her suggesting that we not do anything together this weekend and then to call me twice and talk for over 30 minutes each time is encouraging. However, I still sense some hesitation from coming off the fence. It will happen though - Just need to keep on DBing.
Of course I will need to keep on DBing after she comes down from the fence too, even more than ever.
