He said a couple of things that sounds like he felt insecure in the intimacy dept, and also that he felt unappreciated. I told him I always appreciated everything he's done for us, including up until today. He said I didn't do it in the right way. He feels used.
Is there any truth to any of this? Does any of this 'sting'? If so, how?
Originally Posted By: 2gthrButApart
He seems to be enjoying me being dim and only contacts me via text to ask about the baby.
Of course he's enjoying it, it's what he wants right now. You've finally let up the pressure a bit.
Originally Posted By: 2gthrButApart
Last night he did text me "good night" which he hasn't done in a while, but maybe it was to be polite.
I hope you didn't reply. There was no question there. Dim/dark means just that.
Originally Posted By: 2gthrButApart
Maybe it's mind reading, but I feel he is done, and he's glad I'm finally leaving him alone as he's wanted for months or yrs now.
Yep, mind reading. And you're buying what he's selling. I would bet that he truly doesn't know. He thinks he does.
Maybe he is done. Maybe he is not. Maybe the moon is made of green cheese. Maybe the USA will beat Canada in mens olympic hockey someday. Maybe, maybe, maybe ...
It doesn't change what you need to do.
Originally Posted By: 2gthrButApart
I know, detach, focus on me and the kids.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
