My H says he feels hurt and mad and I just don't see it. He claims it's about the baby b/c it's just bad timing, he said it has nothing to do with me, b/c he's definitely done with me.

He said a couple of things that sounds like he felt insecure in the intimacy dept, and also that he felt unappreciated. I told him I always appreciated everything he's done for us, including up until today. He said I didn't do it in the right way. He feels used.

I don't know how to change this. Or if I can change it. I'm not sure what to do.

He seems to be enjoying me being dim and only contacts me via text to ask about the baby. Last night he did text me "good night" which he hasn't done in a while, but maybe it was to be polite.

I haven't answered the phone at all this week when he calls the kids, usually I'd answer and pass them the phone. So we haven't heard each other's voices since sunday.

Maybe it's mind reading, but I feel he is done, and he's glad I'm finally leaving him alone as he's wanted for months or yrs now.

I know, detach, focus on me and the kids...but what else can I do?

M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug