I would take him up on the refrigerator offer. Why not?
As for the funeral, if people ask, just tell them you're not together and leave it at that. If they pry and you are uncomfortable, tell them you'd rather not talk about it. Kapiche.
Originally Posted By: awest1217
H read the papers and signed them. I again asked if this is what he wants and he said he didn't know. I was honest and said this isn't what I want.
He cries about Ding, but won't tell me he doesn't want this. He just keeps to his "I don't know". It is all so sad to me
And that's just it. He doesn't know. And you do know that you can't stay in limbo forever while he decides what he does and doesn't want.
::Paging Brenalim!::
I think we all are dealing with the same version of 3 men!
Question for the board: didi you guys get a lot of "I don't know" from your spouse's end regarding the D?
Awest, you're doing fine and be glad you KNOW what you want. Not knowing sounds like it would be insane.
I'm also wondering... how effective is DBing? Like, what are the stats for people on this board for making their M work?
