Glad to hear that you have come out of this so well. i am in a similar sitch. and it is pure hell. Unfortunately I don't think we will be able to break up so amicably. I think it is going to get very ugly for me before it gets better so you should take great pride in the fact that you were able to sort things out in such a mature way.
M=42 H=51 Common-law 6yr Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son Bomb dropped January 2013