I don't have any advice really, you know I'm new too. But I have to say our situations are somewhat similar. There is a lot of distance between me and H, although he's not overseas anymore, he's in NY while I'm in TN. We were talking, but it seems the more I try to talk to him the less he talks to me. I would say just keep doing what you think will take you foward. I see a lot of people here respond that you shouldn't act just to get a reaction and also that you shouldn't let emotions drive you. It seems you've been doing pretty good with those so far.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness