I got served this a.m. It was fine--had friends calling all morning to make sure I was OK, which, I was.

So I am trying to figure stuff out--I want H out like NOW--he refuses to go. Says that it will affect child custody issues, which, I doubt. I have a call in to the L I think I will use, but he hasn't called me back, ugh.

I called credit card companies and found out I am the primary card holder on the one acct, and he is the primary on the other. I didn't take him off mine, since he is being decent and probably could have taken me off the other and didn't....

He knows and gave permission to me to get a couch and I think I will. My friends say "do it!" and I just don't know....gotta talk to that L!!

So I told him *I* would be moving into the master bedroom and he would be going to the spare bedroom--with the twin bed and no TV.lol. He said OK, I'll get to it whan I can...little does he know that my neigbor and I will be packing up his stuff and tomorrow night he will be sleeping on the WORST twin mattress imaginable.lol.

Oh, boy, I need to go lurk on the infedelity boards again--they have all those good ways to GET RID OF THEM!!lol.