Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

John, she's not working on the marriage. Staying in the house isn't working on the marriage, it's not trying. It's cohabitating.

I really want to disagree with this. Sandi (i think) pointed out to me that I was expecting too much of her after the bomb. She stopped talking to OM. Stopped talking D and S. Didn't move out. Is going to MC.

I think she's trying in her own way, and although that may not be how you and I see it, I think it's a severe struggle for her to do the things she's doing.