Personally, I think MCing on your own, while your wife defiantly makes the decision NOT to work on the marriage, is just a waste of time. Unless you really like this particular marriage counselor, I think I'd rather see you put the money and time into a good individual counselor for yourself.
Puppy
Well, see that's the thing. She's not defiantly NOT working on the marriage. She's said, "I'm trying. I'm still here in the house. I'm trying for this."
Yet, when push comes to shove and she's put in a place to answer a question that definitively leads her down the path of TRULY working on the marriage, she's has some trouble answering that question.
However, the exact question she was asked by the MC "Do you want to want this marriage?" which sets the ball in motion for a slew of work on our marriage that will probably revive it, is the SAME EXACT THING she's told me numerous times before ever stepping into that office.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
