at this point in my sitch and with all the crap I've been through and learned, I don't think there's anything she can say to shock me.
Well maybe one---- I'm pregnant and want to come back!
NO EXPECTATIONS!
Just remember, there's nothing wrong with you saying to her -- in response to WHATEVER she brings up -- "I'm just not sure how I feel about that anymore."
or
"I'm afraid it's not that easy anymore."
or
"I don't know HOW I feel."
or
"I'm not sure WHAT I want to do. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with me, and I'll certainly think hard about them."
