As far as "asking" her about MC, I think it would be better to just get dressed and act as if and plan to go. After you are dressed you can say something like, "I'm going to our appointment." Don't ask her if she's going....just leave. That shows her something. It shows her that you are not clinging to her skirt-tail and it doesn't put the same type of pressure on her as it was before.
The probem is that we didn't make another appointment at the time of this previous one because W did not answer the question "want to want this marriage?". Therefore, it'd be hard to just get ready and act like I'm going... nowhere. I have thought that I would tell her tomorrow night if she hasn't come to me with a decision that I'm making a MC appointment for Monday, she was welcome to come, but that our MC is tough to get an appointment with and I will be going regardless. I think that's taking charge too.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
