Didn't hear from XW until July 26 when she ran into problems with insurance coverage. I was under the impression that I had 30 days after the D was final to make changes to my benefits and that the first of the month after making the changes the new coverage and premiums would go into affect. So I told XW that she would be covered until July 31 and that she would be on her own on August 1.
Unfortunately, that is not what actually happened. I updated my benfits on July 14 but since the D was final on June 21, the insurance company was told to stop coverage on XW on June 21 so her last day of being covered was June 20 and NOT July 31 so she sent me some texts from the doctors office on July 26 because insurance company was saying that she wasn't covered.
XW also didn't do anything during her 30 day period after the D to change her benefits. One of the e-mails she sent me explained it as being in "an embarassing state of disorganization" which made me laugh because she is basically on summer vacation. She isn't working and while she is on summer vacation she spent two weeks on a vacation within a vacation on the East Coast.
To top it all off she needed to appeal to her work for missing her 30 day period and she needed a letter from my HR department explaining when she lost coverage and what kind of coverage she had. It was a weeks worth of e-mails back and forth and I was able to get her the document on August 2 and received a "Thanks" back from her.
Also found out that she is looking for a one or two bedroom apartment back here and will be returning sometime soon. Not sure if she will bring OM or not and frankly it is none of my business. I still wish she would have stayed back in her hometown with OM and her family but as they say "it is what it is"!
Work is continuing slowly on the master bathroom and when that is done they will start gutting the main bathroom.
D20 turned 21 today and she and I got iPhone 4s and I also got her a new windshield and $1000 worth of car repairs. I like being able to take good care of my kids.
D21 also went to go see my C this past Saturday for the second time and I went a few hours later. C said that D21 is doing very well and that I should be very proud which I am! D19 is having a rough time in Disney World right now. She has finished 2 of her 7 months and is pretty home sick and having a hard time finding good friends. S24 is doing well down there as far as I know.
At my IC session on Saturday C and I decided that it would probably be good for me to start the anullment process. XW always said that she wanted D and then anullment but hasn't really done anything about the anullment and I think that it is something I need so I will start the process whether she participates or not is up to XW.
Show in the mountains just closed this past Sunday and getting ready to open a new one on the 20th for five weekends and then I have another show which will run the two weekends after that. Keeping busy is very helpful.
While doing the show up in the mountains, I met a woman who works at the theatre and we really seemed to hit it off. Not sure if anything will come of it. Only time will tell.
That's all for now!
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
