While she has now mentioned the possibility of remarriage, she still loves her perch on the fence. She has said ILY since the bomb and the D, but she does not say it much and I still quite often get a hint of hesitation and uncertainty when she says ILY verbally. However I do hear ILY loud and clear in a lot of her actions, like wearing perfume, the heels and the blouse for me last night, as well as in her hugs and kisses which are getting more frequent and freely initialed by her when we are together.
But I still sense that I have a long row to hoe. It is a positive step though, that she told me of her client who remarried after D and continued talking about the topic of remarriage and us.
While she did not want for us to get together this weekend we did set up a dinner date for next Tuesday night for steaks out.
She also positively responded to an invitation for a weekend get away for the weekend after Christmas if we can work it around the different family get togethers. We also discussed a return trip to the B&B for my birthday in March in addition to our previously planned trip to Boston at the end of April for a annual convention I go to.
But for now, my job will be to make each date and contact with her to be as fun for her and as positive as I can so that she will look forward to our next date and I will let her continue to bring up the remarriage talk when she is ready. (no pressure)
Well need to get my coffee - will post daily positives in a few
