It took me a long time to realize that I would not want a man who could not express or communicate his feelings.
Why would you want to keep GUESSING what he wants.
Assuming his thoughts and needs.
This will only lead to insanity.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11