Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[BeingMe]

...right now I am learning to and focusing on being happy with my life as it is.

This is a good plan. Stick to that. Keep doing things that are fun. Do you go to the gym? Anything, that gets you out of the house (other than work) and doing something active. A new hobby is a good thing ... it'll keep your mind off things.

Last night I decided it was time to do something different. Prior to our last vacation, when things seemed to be getting better, I would stop by WAW's apartment for tea on my way home from work.

Don't contact her unless it's for finances or about the children. The above could be construed as a pursuing action. Unfortunately, social contact has been broken, so you're going to have to wait for her to try and reconnect. You have to work on you, and seeing the counselor is a step in the right direction.

Take care.