I miss you too PEI. It's been wonderful having you guys backing me up. I do appreciate all of the support everyone has to offer.
How do you all keep up with the many friends you've made here? I keep finding more stories and make comments, follow along, but it's hard to keep up. Is there any easy way to keep track when someone comments on one of your comments?
I scan the forum pretty much daily, watching and reading, even if I'm not posting. Life gets in the way sometimes ... thank God! In the beginning I was litterally here for HOURS everyday. Now I am living a much more balanced existence ... most days
You can watch certain threads or posters, and I also go back and check my posts to see if anyone has commented after me. Oh, and the alt ... I keep up with some of them over there too.
You'll figure out what works for you ...
If I were you, I'd take Lance's advice ... get reading the resources and books ... I noticed that you said you hadn't yet read about 180s or about reminding your H about happy times etc. Frankly, those are some of the basics ... and to fully understand the advice you are getting here takes an understanding of, and knowledge of, some of the basic DB philosophies. You are right in that each sitch is individual yet there are similiarities and generalities that tend to apply across the board.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
