Lance, PEI..is there something in particular that you think I should study? I have been reading the resources, at least the ones I could link to. And I have been re-reading DR and DB, and I have been reading other threads to see what is recommended or suggested for them. I have not benn asking too many questions cuz I don't know what to ask. Nothing is really happening right now.

Maybe I should ask..what would you guys suggest I focus on in our upcoming MC session. It is only session 2 and I am guessing will be the one where we tell him how we got where we are today. The first session he did most of the talking..explaining how and why we do the things we do..how we handle conflict..what conflict is, etc. Should I let my H tell the sordid details?