I miss you too PEI. It's been wonderful having you guys backing me up. I do appreciate all of the support everyone has to offer.
How do you all keep up with the many friends you've made here? I keep finding more stories and make comments, follow along, but it's hard to keep up. Is there any easy way to keep track when someone comments on one of your comments?
Eric..things are ok. Nothing big to report. We don't have our next C session until Aug 18. The guy is hard to get into I guess. I was assured that once things started moving along, it would get easier to make regular appts.
It is slow going..and I'm just kinda letting it be. I have alot of other things to keep me busy. This job hunting thing has turned into a full time job itself!
Lance, PEI..is there something in particular that you think I should study? I have been reading the resources, at least the ones I could link to. And I have been re-reading DR and DB, and I have been reading other threads to see what is recommended or suggested for them. I have not benn asking too many questions cuz I don't know what to ask. Nothing is really happening right now.
Maybe I should ask..what would you guys suggest I focus on in our upcoming MC session. It is only session 2 and I am guessing will be the one where we tell him how we got where we are today. The first session he did most of the talking..explaining how and why we do the things we do..how we handle conflict..what conflict is, etc. Should I let my H tell the sordid details?
Re: your comment of what you should read - where or what do YOU think you need to improve? I can tell you to read a host of M books but what I really think that you need to really figure out what things about yourself you want to change and work on those. Why? You and YOUR H would benefit.
Just my 2 cents.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
