I just had a very big positive - Cindy just sent an IM that simply said "Hi" I was not at my computer and missed it for about 30 minutes but did respond that I was sorry I was away and did not respond right away. She replied that she said it like she use to.
When I first met her she had a way of saying "HI" or "Hi-There" that just made any one that heard it bubble with joy. one of my goals was for her to say Hi that way again. Well in the chit chat that followed she asked me out to dinner.
So tonight it will be one of her favorites "Wings" at Zaxbys near my apt. - --==-- she is driving over to my place. WOW - She said she actually feels more human again. (she has been sick with slight fever and sore throat for almost 2 months)
