Punkin..I agree with the mental institution comment. There really should be a place we could check them into so that they don't harm themselves or anyone else while they are mental.

Alb..this is the first time I've been to your thread and I agree with you about being fascinated with the whole process of MLC. It amazes me that I hadn't heard of this in my 53 years of life, and now have to live it. And it's so hard to see someone you love go thru it too..just looking at them you can see how screwed up they are, and it's natural to want to help them, cuz you love them..and then you think about them with the OW, and it kinda makes you want to just punch them right in the nose.