What he has said is that I need to work on getting her to like me again to work on things that we both had fun doing and to listen to her. His take on this is that at some point she will start to lose interest in him and gravitate towards me. If I push her - she will continue to see him and I will drive her away. It is taking everything that I have to not try and find this guy (to see who he is) and/or determine the exact extent of the relationship. It is hurting me in the worst way to know that she is talking with him while we are going through this.
What are the boundries that you would suggest? What would happen if she violated them?
How do I get her to suspend the EA and work on us without driving her away?
Should we seperate or call it quits? I can't go on forever like this.
