Lin..does imLIN stand for "I'm living in a nightmare"? Cause that's what I feel like sometimes.
I, too, had a health problem just before he left. I had a breast cancer scare and he went with me to the hospital for testing. Thank God, cause it was hell.
Can you describe what you mean about the ride being really tough once you start actually trying to work things out? in more detail, I mean. I'd like to know what to expect now that we're at that point. I think this new MC will help us somewhat. It's better than trying to figure it out all on our own, anyway. I know every relationship is different and the hurdles will be different too, but just generally speaking what were some of the issues that surfaced? I'm having a bit of a problem with the internal visual of him being with another woman..and seeing them together when I close my eyes. And the fact that he was ready to throw away all that we had for her or for some other pipe dream. I am going to have to let that go, but for now..it's front and center.
