Soleil, most lawyers should give you a 30min-1hr free consulting session. Call them up instead of driving all over the place. CG has good advice- talk to every good L about taking your case because that will block him from using those Ls. Of course, you don't have to go with them.
Texts...depends what kind of texts, if there's anything that could be used in court then yes keep them. If they're 'hey baby, what's for dinner tonight?' then sure delete them.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again